| Location | Herts |
| Age | 48 years |
| Date of Birth | 1960 |
| Date of Death | 06/04/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,260 since 16/06/2008 |
| Creator |
Gary Bird
He closed his eyes for the last time on 06/04/08
Aged 48 at 1.55am it snowed.
My Wonderful husband, proud father, and grandfather
3 beautiful daughters, grandson and granddaughter and now new beautiful grand daughter Marianna who he would totally adore
He died after an incredible 5 year brain tumour fight
Gary was the bravest, calm, funloving person ever. You would never ever know just how ill he was. He partied, had mad fun, went everywhere and talked and chatted to everyone. He loved life and he loved his family so much and everyone loved him. He took all his illnesses - and he had so many - in his stride always making light of them and always pulling through. He meant so much to me and we got through everything that was thrown at us. I miss him so much sometimes i cant breathe and I think about him 24/7. It's unnatural that he's not here with me as we belong together and always will. He was so very very special and i feel honoured to have had him in my life for more than 21 years and of always loving him and being so loved by him. LTD xx
lovely birthday boy xx
Hi gorgeous how you doing,, well 52 tomo, old boy HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Im sure your all getting ready to party, you lot have never turned down a chance to party, and now you can party all night long why not ,, will be thinking about you all day tomo Gaz,, so sorry Im not getting up to the crem but my heart will be with you ,, do you love the picture of our three girls I put on face book today fab isnt it,, all looking so gorgeous,, I know you must have been looking out for Lisa last week , bit scary for her,, and cameron 9 !!! can you believe it, all going crazy fast, look out for Lauren on friday Gaz,, Im totally sure shes ok, I think its all the stress shes having at the mo, but stay in there with her,, no daddy splash please , you know what shes like in small spaces,, Missing you the same as ever, bit scared at the big bang last night not sure what that was,, hoping to have lovely dream with you tonight,,hey check out how Maz does tomo at toddlers, hope she loves it wish I was being with them all tomo Gaz,, Tib is here , shes so deaf now ,, and so naughty, bless her ,, hows Mitz ??Well my darling one , have a lovely day flying and shining round there with everyone, fly this way if you can,, miss you so much my lovely boy, I will change this music soon ,, happy people?? John Ledgend?? The Real Thing ??,,, You Take Care, love you forever and then forever again,, always will, just miss you miss your cuddles miss your hugs, kisses, and just sitting with you saying nothing atall,, just looking at you, just being next to you ,, shouting at you ha ha , smiling at you ,,laughing with you,, all things that i know now are so very very special,, singing happy birthday to you very loudly, big choclate cakes blowing out a million candles,, and speech ,,, presents and presents ha ha ha ha Memories,, please dont ever let me lose them,, I would be nothing without them,,, I love you Gary Happy Birthday my lovely lovely husband ,,,,, L.T.D. love you more xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
my lovely
Happy New Year my darling ,, thankyou for everything ,, look your standing, !!!! and that kiss !! great fireworks last night, you had the best view, happy new year to everyone with you Gazza,, love you forever XXXXXXXX
my lovely one
Hi Gary, well 3rd time lucky. three huge messages, just gone, hopefully you got to see them , just to cut short, yes ive done it ha ha im here and wow you would so love it, its amazing, I smile to myself all the time , and think about you being here all the time, so many things remind me of you and i just hope you know where I am and that your around too, leaving as i said before was so hard, the things going through my mind were crazy , all i could think of was our darling little girls being so excited about having a house, a bedroom, mitzi, shouting from room to room parties , the millenium, all the love fights, so much gary so much , but here is amazing, i just know you would love it,. how is everyone please give my love to them all , cant belive another year has passed, two new babies beautiful rosie and harry, and dont you just love Marianna , shes just amazing , not a lot of words but so much character, and totally adorable i love her so much Gary and know you do too , she knows you so well, , the girls are ok , Lauren split up with Joao, you know thats been a nightmare aAex i dont seem to know anymore its all about Paul and were a bit embarresing for her now , maybe she wants to break away, im not sure but shes not our Alex it makes me very sad,, another year Gary, where has it gone, what is happening, lovely Lesley is so ill, please send her some angels to help her Gary, please keep her and her family strong , I love you so much gary , more than ever, im trying to enjoy life but your not here so its just impossible, you are my everything, and all i do is think of you, tibby is fine , old and weeing everywhere but ok , mum is so good , amazing in fact, dad must be so proud, Sylvia has not been well so send her some strenght if you can ,, I hope your ok Gary and that things are ok where you are , please please please come if you can , thanks for the robin, i totally loved it, Ive got so much to tell you , but will tell you everyday as i do,I love you so much Gary and always always will,, until we are together again my lovely lovely boy ,, happy new year my darling , you to me are everything LTD LHMCST XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
my lovely one
Hey gorgeous how you doing, hope you an everyone are o.k , well gary, what am i doing ha ha but here i go, how funny hope you know its the right thing, i think it is specially after you sent me the boat at the crem hey totally amazing as always, your amazing ,cant believe im leavin here im just praying your coming with me, im sure you are please let me know your with me, please my lovely please,, how lovely was tonight, ,memories of you, here so many wonderful memories but we can move on i know it , please stay with me gaz me an tibby we need you now more than ever ,this a massive thing for me .im scared alot but know you will be there, hey23 years gaz, married 23 years amazing a,an love you more than ever, an happy birthday to your mum on 5th, send my love, saw sharon today she looks great an is doing o.k. maybe moving nexy year, janet your janet was very an is still poorly bless her give her your love, we are all o.k maz is amazing an knows you so we;;, lauren an joao are over , lauren is very tired but getting there, alex is o.k an hopfully my flat will work out for her for a while , do you think it is o.k gaz, ?? what should i do about mitz an cossie a , are you with them gaz, should i take themwith me let me know ,,,oh gary happy anniversary my lovely 23 years how amazing is that,, I love you so much gary , an im always lokking for you an always will be till i find you an can cuddle you for eternity, how funny i found that photo ha ha ha, please look after tib for me tomo an while she settles in im a bit worried about her, hey gaz love you so so much more than ever an a day you know it ,, im so so tired right now, love you so so much will never forget this cieling that im looking up that you found your way through, this place will be forever in my heart forever me an you ,, love you so much my lovely lovely boy, yours forever an ever, nite nite , love you more , L.T.D forever an ever HAPPY 23RD ANNIVERSARY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
my lovely
hallo my gorgeous one, how you doing, long time since ive been on here, but what with all this going on i just had to put it down, well what do you think, am i crazy gary , i really dont know what to do for the best, am i just getting old an lookin for change, will i lose everything, should i take the chance, i wish you could just tell me, so many things are pointing to you sayin yea go crazy lady, ha ha but im so scared, an what about marianna, the girls my mum, tibby, and my job money, im not sure how i think it will be o.k,, but somewhere deep down i think we would have done something, i think we would have had that change no matter if it was right or wrong, an we would have made a go of it, and you would be so much better at it than me, you would make the friends an make it work, an thats what im scared of, im not as good as you, never will be, an i miss you being here doing this wioth me so so so much, im scared your here in this house an im leaving you behind, i wish i knew for sure you were coming too, oh gary where are you, i love you so much, hey how funny bag end, devotion never ends gary alexander bird, i thought that was a good sighn,, how are you an everyone, thought of your mum on may 21st, sharon an the family were here on sunday, they all seem fine, spoke to david, an janet an mike, poor janet she could really do with your mum being around, hope your all looking out for her, jayne wilsons dad went over to you recently, have you seen him hope hes o.k,,well lauren is in her little flat now with maz, there doing just fine marianna is just adorable , i love her so so much, fancy lauren being in nightingale walk, how funny is that, its lovely there now, joao has been to brazil, i hope they can keep friendly now, for mariannas sake, as shes so happy right now, alex is o.k , back with paul, i think im driving her nuts , its my big 50 soon an shes sortin out with lauren, an im stressing her out as usual, like i stressed you out on my 40th an my lovely trip tp paris, that was wonderful gary wasnt it beautiful paris in the french restaurant that was italian ha ha ha , hope my dad an nan are o.k give them an everyone my love, did you like my laburnam tree lucy got me, how sweet is rosie bless her, lee an emma have new baby coming this week, johns really hurt his knee,but is o.k,, oh gary i could write forever, but i know you are here an no all that is happenin i just wish you could tell me what im doin will be o.k, i will be listenin for you, tibby is old deaf, snoring but fine she will be the boat cat ha ha ha,, i love you gary more than ever, i always will, nite nite my lovely, take care, stay close, i need you so much, love you more L.T.D xxxxxxxx
gary,my lovely,
Hi gorgeous, how you doing, what a beautiful day, beautiful sunshine youve got for your day, although i did love the snow that came the night you went, the angels left it, oh gary cant believe its been 3 years, where has that time gone , an where have you gone, its like yesterday , although its also like forever ago,it was lovely playing your music this morning, i had so many lovely messages from lots of people, we looked through the box last night which was lovely, an then today has been so beautiful, the crem was just amazing so many daffidils, flowers, sunshine, an blue sky, just how you would love it, did you see beautiful maz standing right on you playing with the flowers, ha ha so gorgeous, dont you just love her, alex an lauren both came down, it somehow gets harder with time, everyone says it will get better, but all i do is get a bit better at hiding how i feel to everyone, i no no no, i should be getting on with my life an thats what you want but i find it so so hard gary,,i really dont no how to do that without you, i miss you still so very much, i love you so much its crazy in my heart, i really hope your doin better than me, an havin fun up there with everyone, hope your partyin with everyone, flyin high with the stars , hey we have the new beautiful rosie here,lucy had her on the 27th but im sure you no that, shes so tiny an so beautiful you would love her, lees emma is havin her baby in june,, did you see the fox in the garden wow it was beautiful, im loving all my garden visitors, wish you would be in it one day ,,james phoned to say he was thinkin of us all, lauren an joao are still a bit of a mess im not sure what will happen there, but hey marianna is just amazin, oh gary im sure your on your way to the football right now, pete an jamie are there, hope we can do it,well my gorgeous , my lovely, my everything, please stay close, i need you so much, i will try hard, i love you so much gary ,to the very end of everywhere an back again an a little bit more, dream about you later, will think about you always, nite babe ,love you more, no you more , no you xxxxxx L.T.D
hallo, my lovely
hi my lovely, how you doin, hope your o.k, well lovely dream of you last night, an thanks for today, hope im doin the right thing, what do you think,,,, lots goin on which i know you know all about, not been doin to well with it all, but managing, just would much rather be managing with a cuddle from you xx,hopefully work has now picked up, an will stay that way, this year seems to be flying along, lots of crazy things goin on in the world,poor people, so sad gary,,think of you so much,chat all the time as you no, the girls are o.k alex seems very happy right now an in a good place, lauren still tryin to sort it all out, as im sure you no, her an joao are as stubborn as each other im not copin to well with there problems, but marianna is an angel i love her so much as i no you do, i just wish she was around a happy relationship,gary,,she is so funny an clever, you would spoil her so much, she looks at your photos all the time, an knows you are here,,her gorgeous little face,, she looks like joao but i see a little lauren in her alot, so so sweet, the family all seem well, lucys baby is due in a few weeks, emmas in a few months,very exciting, mum is fine doing really well, john was poorly for a bit with his face muscels, but seems o.k now, all the kids are fine just growing up, not seen much of your sister but she seems to be makin the most of life an havin lots of fun,, i hope everyone with you is o.k, had lots of feelings of nan the other day an so did mum, tell her thankyou an give her my love, an my dad he was in lots of dreams an it was lovely, thanks for keepin the boiler goin ha ha i cant believe it, i will get it done soon as i sort money out,,, oh my lovely, i still love you so much an miss you more than ever, even after these three years nothing is normal everything is in limbo,still so strange, i dont think i will ever feel right again ,i love you more than ever gary an always will, tib is fine, an poor old saffy, did you send her gaz??? she was beautiful, but how could i upset tib that much by keepin her, ? or could i, i was so happy when her family found her, but then they couldn keep her, i still think of her, i dont no why she came in my garden, thats why i thought of you xxxx oh well gorgeous think ive filled you in with the latest, hope your havin fun flyin high, travellin far, shining bright, come around when you can my darling, nite nite for now, love you more L.T.D XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
happy valentines my lovely,
hey my gorgeous one, how you doing,, hope your o.k ha ha really grinning, love you so much OH MY DAYS GARY, how crazy what earth is going on , they are totally CRAZY, Why is she doing this , you sent him hes been almost perfect an Hey,, she dont wont it she wants attention an ,,little idiot boy , ha ha ha ha got to laugh, she has no idea of this life , what a hard way to learn but seems nothing me or you or anyone can do so sad so sad,,,and darlin darling marianna, how she loves you , and needs you thank you for being with her, off to birmingham tomo, bad timing but maybe not,, thank you so much for finding my necklace , for finding you, i cant believe i left it there so wrapped up in whats going on, god my brain , cant sleep , cant keep fit , cant stay in control, i just need you here top scream at AAAAGGGGHHHHHH my god miss you miss you miss you miss you crazy crazy crazy world, tib is hear so angry with me cause of the other cat that is here , i just couldn let it out in the rain , but hey its out now ha ha thinking of you makes me laugh i love you so so so so so so much more than ever an ever HAPPY VALENTINES MY LOVELY , your the bomb, ha ha randy on american idol ,,,, nite nite my lovely love you more always have always will my everything till forever and beyond LTD GSFTLOOM XXXXXX
birthday boy
hi my lovely, Hey happy birthday love you so much my gorgeous,, hope youve had a wonderful day, gary its your birthday , happy birthday gary ,,,,, wow hope your partyin tonight with everyone,, your social time must be a dame site better than mine down here,, we all thought of you , blew candles out on sunday , an did your ledge of the year,, jack an lee won a joint ledge which was great,, were all o.k gaz im feelin abit more positive about the new year than befor,, thankyou,, still totally stressed with lauren an joao but doin my thing,, maz is amazin , we were down with you this mornin sure maz is with you, how funny is she, she points to you all the time an calls you up the stairs ha ha ha al is still not al , not sure what to do , just be around i think, two new babies comin this year gaz , how exciti, lucys is april 6th, how mad,,not alot of work right now, really worried but cantr seem to find anything else at mo, thanks for keepin the dodgy boiler going all over christmas, your a star. hey i bet your out with your family right now , i hope so havin fun, im sorry i get upset on here, i will be o.k gaz i promise, i will make it good an enjoy it,, not sure about the message and the e mail, dont no if you mean do it or dont ???? hey my lovely . i love you so much,, you no it, you love me too ,,i know it,,,im so lucky, always will be,,your my one an only for eternity and beyond, ha ha have fun tonight my darling, love you more than anything and then some nite nite my lovely,, love you more xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
another year my lovely
Another year Gaz,,, GARY,,,,,,,Please answer me.......................happy new year ,2011 now well two hours, i just want to go backwards, so sad on here gaz, tib is here, everything a bit crap ,as you know lauren,, what on this earth can i do, im tryin really tryin, al is so different too , isnt she so serious the sunshine sucked out, im so sad i love you so much i miss you so much i cant bare it cant bare it,,,, our lovely lovely family, you were everything, totally the best part off it all, time dosent heal ,what crap that is, its like tryin to fill the great canyon with egg shells an even if i could whats the point, say hi to everyone gary how lucky you are to be all together tell them i love them, i love you too gaz more than ever im so sorry im so low tonight i am goin to try really hard to feel better in the new year try an make some changes an be positive, i love you so much , im just very lonely without you, i hope you havin more of a party than me i hope so all dressed up, dancin, loud music to dance to, party the night away gary,, i love you my darlin an will for as long as i can for eternity and back an then some happy new year my lovely love you more always will nite nite, come when you can ha ha ha you know it,,, L.T.D xxxxxx
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